PRENATAL YOGA
Earlier this year, the studio where I teach the bulk of my classes asked if I would take on one prenatal class. I'd never formally taught such a class (had subbed, tho), and decided to give it a try -- and, I was flattered to be asked.
Now, 4 months into this experience, I finally am taking a workshop training with Jessica Jennings, founder of MaYoga. Oh, I've bought videos, books, read what I can, but - boy - is it weak out there. I decided that if this is to continue, I better find someone well-respected and really get some study under my belt. I learned the do's and don't's of teaching prenatal yoga in my trainings, but soon discovered that's not really enough. Since beginning the class, I'm getting more comfortable, but still feel I need more 'connection' to these students (or, I need to decide that prenatal yoga teaching is not my cup of tea).
When students arrive at the studio for the first time, they are often surprised to see me (as their instructor). Not that I look that old, but I do not fit the stereotypical image of a yoga instructor -- I'm a grandmother, after all. I have been standing at the desk and, when told I am the instructor, some have been heard to say 'oh, you're the teacher?'. How would that make you feel?
So, I need to get them past that desk, into the room and give them the best prenatal class they've ever had (or, I need to give it up). Simple as that.
The training began with Jessica last night, and will continue through today and part of Sunday. We went through introductions (there are about 14 of us). Then took a short break, and moved a bit -- in the prenatal way.
What have I noticed?
Now, 4 months into this experience, I finally am taking a workshop training with Jessica Jennings, founder of MaYoga. Oh, I've bought videos, books, read what I can, but - boy - is it weak out there. I decided that if this is to continue, I better find someone well-respected and really get some study under my belt. I learned the do's and don't's of teaching prenatal yoga in my trainings, but soon discovered that's not really enough. Since beginning the class, I'm getting more comfortable, but still feel I need more 'connection' to these students (or, I need to decide that prenatal yoga teaching is not my cup of tea).
When students arrive at the studio for the first time, they are often surprised to see me (as their instructor). Not that I look that old, but I do not fit the stereotypical image of a yoga instructor -- I'm a grandmother, after all. I have been standing at the desk and, when told I am the instructor, some have been heard to say 'oh, you're the teacher?'. How would that make you feel?
So, I need to get them past that desk, into the room and give them the best prenatal class they've ever had (or, I need to give it up). Simple as that.
The training began with Jessica last night, and will continue through today and part of Sunday. We went through introductions (there are about 14 of us). Then took a short break, and moved a bit -- in the prenatal way.
What have I noticed?
- Verbiage is more 'baby-centered' than I've been offering
- She works students pretty hard; harder than I've been doing
- Some interesting transitions from downdog to a modified cobra back to down dog and then to uttanasana.
There's more, but these were my initial impressions. More will come out today and tomorrow.
So, got to sign off and go do some work. Hope you have a great Saturday!
CHAIRS WITH DESIREE
Wisdom Warriors was yesterday (Wednesday). For those of you new to my blog, Wisdom Warriors is a practice group organized by Desiree Rumbaugh and Geri Portnoy. The age of attendees is 50+, women and men (tho, like most yoga classes, the women far outnumber the men -- too bad). We gather each Wednesday from 1-3pm and do fun 'stuff', fun yoga 'stuff'. And, this week, the first thing we did was get out one chair each.
Desiree began the practice with a brief chat -- this is a practice group, but our goal is to become a social group, as well. Not like a sorority or fraternity, but a group of friends; friends who do yoga together and hang out together. Our first social event was last weekend. I was unable to attend, and eager to hear details. Sounds like everyone - even husbands who don't 'do' yoga - had a great time. The tone of the group this Wednesday was different, as a result -- more like a group of friends gathering again, this time to do yoga. Mission being accomplished! The next planned event is July 4; an e-vite will be sent to the WW mailing list.
After a brief re-cap of the first event, Des talked about the chairs and how much we can accomplish with them. I have, truly, had students avoid my class if I bring out the chairs. This sounded like my dream class -- to learn new ways to use the chairs to make students feel 'worked' (since I'm thinking that's why people left -- they worried they weren't going to get 'worked' enough).
So, a brief chant, back to the mats, but no chairs just yet, got to warm up. Some salutations, mixing it up, keeping ribs knitted. That was fun; chairs? Not yet. Now let's go to the wall - do some handstands (keeping ribs knitted), pincha mayurasana (also ribs knitted), headstand, no-head headstand. That, too, was fun; now chairs? Not yet. A few arm balances, and some twisting. Now chairs? Yes! But, first a demo of a beautiful tripod headstand by Andrew's sister, Susan, who is visiting (Andrew is Des' husband). So, let's all do that. Tripod is my least favorite, but I gave it a shot, getting into the shape, pressing my head strongly into the floor. Then, continuing the work with the neck, we partnered to do parvritta trichonasana -- also fun. Now, we can go get our chairs. (I must have missed something in describing all we did, but right now, this is good; and I'm ready to write about the chairs.)
Not chairs like I use in Gentle Yoga, however. We did one twist on the chair (I do do that in the Gentle Class), then we crawled onto the chair in order to lay over it in a supported backbend (if you can't picture it, well just believe me -- it felt good, but it probably won't be on my Gentle Yoga 'playlist'). A few took the backbend further, as they slid forward, resting head and forearms on floor, and moving feet towards the hands (imagine a circle here). Then, we crawled out of the chair, turned around, and with our backs against the front of the chair, we let the chair work it's magic on our backs (right around t11-12).
We finished the practice with a supported shoulderstand -- shoulders on 2-3 stacked blankets and sacrum on the chair seat. We spent about 10 minutes here, working the legs, moving to halasana (plow), back to shoulderstand, etc. Then we were instructed to slide off the chair, let our hips rest on the blankets, our calves on the chair --- ahhh, it was savasana time.
As I wrote this, I'm aware of a tendency to get a bit 'flip'. In all seriousness, I feel stronger and more in control after these past 7-8 weeks, than I have in months. I cannot express my gratitude enough to Geri and Des for coming up with this great idea, and putting it into action. It has saved and re-ignited my practice. Enough of the sappy stuff.
Today? Taking a day off. Wish I could take some of this 'chair stuff' to my basics class, but -- next week.
Hope you have a great Thursday!
Desiree began the practice with a brief chat -- this is a practice group, but our goal is to become a social group, as well. Not like a sorority or fraternity, but a group of friends; friends who do yoga together and hang out together. Our first social event was last weekend. I was unable to attend, and eager to hear details. Sounds like everyone - even husbands who don't 'do' yoga - had a great time. The tone of the group this Wednesday was different, as a result -- more like a group of friends gathering again, this time to do yoga. Mission being accomplished! The next planned event is July 4; an e-vite will be sent to the WW mailing list.
After a brief re-cap of the first event, Des talked about the chairs and how much we can accomplish with them. I have, truly, had students avoid my class if I bring out the chairs. This sounded like my dream class -- to learn new ways to use the chairs to make students feel 'worked' (since I'm thinking that's why people left -- they worried they weren't going to get 'worked' enough).
So, a brief chant, back to the mats, but no chairs just yet, got to warm up. Some salutations, mixing it up, keeping ribs knitted. That was fun; chairs? Not yet. Now let's go to the wall - do some handstands (keeping ribs knitted), pincha mayurasana (also ribs knitted), headstand, no-head headstand. That, too, was fun; now chairs? Not yet. A few arm balances, and some twisting. Now chairs? Yes! But, first a demo of a beautiful tripod headstand by Andrew's sister, Susan, who is visiting (Andrew is Des' husband). So, let's all do that. Tripod is my least favorite, but I gave it a shot, getting into the shape, pressing my head strongly into the floor. Then, continuing the work with the neck, we partnered to do parvritta trichonasana -- also fun. Now, we can go get our chairs. (I must have missed something in describing all we did, but right now, this is good; and I'm ready to write about the chairs.)
Not chairs like I use in Gentle Yoga, however. We did one twist on the chair (I do do that in the Gentle Class), then we crawled onto the chair in order to lay over it in a supported backbend (if you can't picture it, well just believe me -- it felt good, but it probably won't be on my Gentle Yoga 'playlist'). A few took the backbend further, as they slid forward, resting head and forearms on floor, and moving feet towards the hands (imagine a circle here). Then, we crawled out of the chair, turned around, and with our backs against the front of the chair, we let the chair work it's magic on our backs (right around t11-12).
We finished the practice with a supported shoulderstand -- shoulders on 2-3 stacked blankets and sacrum on the chair seat. We spent about 10 minutes here, working the legs, moving to halasana (plow), back to shoulderstand, etc. Then we were instructed to slide off the chair, let our hips rest on the blankets, our calves on the chair --- ahhh, it was savasana time.
As I wrote this, I'm aware of a tendency to get a bit 'flip'. In all seriousness, I feel stronger and more in control after these past 7-8 weeks, than I have in months. I cannot express my gratitude enough to Geri and Des for coming up with this great idea, and putting it into action. It has saved and re-ignited my practice. Enough of the sappy stuff.
Today? Taking a day off. Wish I could take some of this 'chair stuff' to my basics class, but -- next week.
Hope you have a great Thursday!
NOW WHAT?
The prospect of a teacher-led school of Anusara Yoga looks bleak/hopeless/at an end. Another letter from the LC (Leadership Committee) tells us that negotiations stalemated, and their efforts to take control of the Anusara trademarks from John will cease. They (the LC) hopes to continue working to develop a new teacher-led school. I'll remain patient, wait and see what the LC comes up with, entertain other options. I will not align with John again after the shenanigans of the past 6+ months. (I use the word 'shenanigans' to add some humor to this otherwise debacle of tremendous repercussions throughout the community once known as the Anusara Yoga kula (community).)
So, having said all that -- what do I do with this blog? Change the name? I think, YES. How do I get rid of a quote that I've deleted from the blog template, but keeps appearing in my linking to Facebook; a quote from John, no less. Great quote, just not good timing. Maybe I start a NEW blog; like a new life! Invite my 40 'followers' to follow me to the new landing site and begin again. Just might do that.
Today, tho, I'll write in this as I think about next steps.
Yesterday was Gentle Yoga Friday; meaning I taught a Gentle Yoga class. This is a bit more active than my Therapeutic/Gentle class earlier in the week, which also means more people will attend (the word 'therapeutic' stops many from attending, tho I think many could use it). Friday's Gentle class includes a group of about 5-6 'regulars' - people who come each week, almost without fail, plus whoever else may wander in (last week it was a beautiful woman from England). Each has a reason for Gentle Yoga, and my teaching is a slower version of a Basic class. My goal for everyone is to get stronger, do a few things they haven't done before, have fun, learn new 'stuff'. Yesterday, the focus was on new 'stuff'.
Specifically, what I experienced on Wednesday -- see the previous post -- knitting the ribs, scooping the tailbone, opening. These movements, I thought, would not come easily to many students. I came up with a kinesthetic demo for us all -- place hands on lower ribcage in front (right where the ribs tend to flare open). Take a breath and, exhaling, press hands into ribcage (use rib/ab muscles also) to create manual rib knitting. Now, maintain thighs back as they scooped tailbone towards ankles. Keeping hands on ribs, helping to maintain the rib knitting, move shoulders up and back (shoulder loop). I wanted them to see that pulling the ribs in, scooping the tailbone, did not mean sacrificing their posture -- it would, quite simply, make their stance feel more secure, stable, strong.
That worked well (at least they said they understood), so we proceeded. A few standing poses, then to the wall for wall dog, wall parsvottonasana, tree pose with bent knee pressing into wall, and chair pose (backside into wall) and cross one ankle on top of other knee for a hip stretch. Then back to mats for parsvokonasana and trichonasana, keeping ribs knitted, tailbone scooped and back thigh back (tho I noticed that I didn't have to remind them about the thigh). Their evaluation? Their poses felt stronger, and they 'got' it. Finished up with a bit more hip opening, and a long savasana.
I think it was a successful class. The comments afterwards sometimes are misleading -- as in, 'great class', but you never see the student again -- like that. But I think I saw a blossoming of new strength in these students who had chosen to attend my 'Gentle Yoga' class. Love it!
Today? Going to a matinee play in LaJolla; then the first social event with Wisdom Warriors. Looking forward to it.
Hope your Saturday is a good one.
So, having said all that -- what do I do with this blog? Change the name? I think, YES. How do I get rid of a quote that I've deleted from the blog template, but keeps appearing in my linking to Facebook; a quote from John, no less. Great quote, just not good timing. Maybe I start a NEW blog; like a new life! Invite my 40 'followers' to follow me to the new landing site and begin again. Just might do that.
Today, tho, I'll write in this as I think about next steps.
Yesterday was Gentle Yoga Friday; meaning I taught a Gentle Yoga class. This is a bit more active than my Therapeutic/Gentle class earlier in the week, which also means more people will attend (the word 'therapeutic' stops many from attending, tho I think many could use it). Friday's Gentle class includes a group of about 5-6 'regulars' - people who come each week, almost without fail, plus whoever else may wander in (last week it was a beautiful woman from England). Each has a reason for Gentle Yoga, and my teaching is a slower version of a Basic class. My goal for everyone is to get stronger, do a few things they haven't done before, have fun, learn new 'stuff'. Yesterday, the focus was on new 'stuff'.
Specifically, what I experienced on Wednesday -- see the previous post -- knitting the ribs, scooping the tailbone, opening. These movements, I thought, would not come easily to many students. I came up with a kinesthetic demo for us all -- place hands on lower ribcage in front (right where the ribs tend to flare open). Take a breath and, exhaling, press hands into ribcage (use rib/ab muscles also) to create manual rib knitting. Now, maintain thighs back as they scooped tailbone towards ankles. Keeping hands on ribs, helping to maintain the rib knitting, move shoulders up and back (shoulder loop). I wanted them to see that pulling the ribs in, scooping the tailbone, did not mean sacrificing their posture -- it would, quite simply, make their stance feel more secure, stable, strong.
That worked well (at least they said they understood), so we proceeded. A few standing poses, then to the wall for wall dog, wall parsvottonasana, tree pose with bent knee pressing into wall, and chair pose (backside into wall) and cross one ankle on top of other knee for a hip stretch. Then back to mats for parsvokonasana and trichonasana, keeping ribs knitted, tailbone scooped and back thigh back (tho I noticed that I didn't have to remind them about the thigh). Their evaluation? Their poses felt stronger, and they 'got' it. Finished up with a bit more hip opening, and a long savasana.
I think it was a successful class. The comments afterwards sometimes are misleading -- as in, 'great class', but you never see the student again -- like that. But I think I saw a blossoming of new strength in these students who had chosen to attend my 'Gentle Yoga' class. Love it!
Today? Going to a matinee play in LaJolla; then the first social event with Wisdom Warriors. Looking forward to it.
Hope your Saturday is a good one.
KNIT YOUR RIBS . . .
A line from my Pilates instructor? yes; a line from Desiree Rumbaugh in the Wisdom Warriors yoga practice today? also, yes.
For several in the room of 20 Warriors (aged 50+), this was new terminology (unless they have Pilates experience). For me, well - I'd heard it in Pilates, but I had also heard it before from Desiree (first time, at a workshop in Springdale, Utah; then in Driggs, Idaho). This time, she added on "scoop your tailbone, hard! and keep your thighs back". What? (One confession -- she may have said the stuff about tailbone and thighs before; if so, I've blocked that memory.)
Best of all, today, she was giving these multi-tasking instructions with me demo'ing parsvakonasana and transitioning to trichonasana. It goes like this:
For several in the room of 20 Warriors (aged 50+), this was new terminology (unless they have Pilates experience). For me, well - I'd heard it in Pilates, but I had also heard it before from Desiree (first time, at a workshop in Springdale, Utah; then in Driggs, Idaho). This time, she added on "scoop your tailbone, hard! and keep your thighs back". What? (One confession -- she may have said the stuff about tailbone and thighs before; if so, I've blocked that memory.)
Best of all, today, she was giving these multi-tasking instructions with me demo'ing parsvakonasana and transitioning to trichonasana. It goes like this:
- Set your foundation for parsvakonasana (side angle pose)
- Take your gaze towards your navel -- no way you can do this without knitting your ribs
- Scoop your tailbone strongly as you keep the back thigh back (is that clear enough?)
- Keeping the actions of ribs knitted and tailbone scooped (and back thigh back), extend the top arm over your ear, breathe, open. Just keep breathing, take gaze to upper arm, you will open; it happened for me.
- Now, transition to trichonasana (triangle)
- Once again, check out your navel
- Scoop your tailbone, extend energy down from solar plexus (lower rib cage)
- Oh, and keep back thigh back
- Holding 6, 7, and 8, open and extend your top arm to the sky
- Take your gaze towards the lifted arm
O.K., I did all this in a demo that lasted at least 5 minutes; maybe 8 minutes. Then, the group did it -- beginning on the same side. Gotta tell you my right leg was talking to me when we switched sides.
This was the teaching today -- lower rib cage held in check (not allowed to flair with abandon), tailbone scooped -- the result? Stronger poses, more confident poses, beautiful poses.
What else did we do with our ribs knitted and tailbones scooped?
Handstands, forearm balances, many variations of bakasana (crow/crane), dhanurasana (bow), some things I think we just 'made up', urdhva dhanurasana (wheel pose), more handstands, ardha matsyendrasana (seated twist), hanumanasana (splits). I've missed a lot, but I think I captured the essence. Desiree was on fire; and she ignited us.
For me, the best part? Lasting out that 15 minute demo; maybe it was 20 minutes. Yeah, I'm sure it was 25 minutes.
Tomorrow? Watch out Thursday class!
A NEW EXPERIENCE -- 'MELT'-ing
Sunday, I accepted an invitation to attend a short workshop titled "Introduction to the MELT Method". Curious about this method - which I had heard of with increasing frequency - I accepted, submitted my registration, and made the drive in to Del Mar to participate.
So, what is MELT? Myofascial Energetic Lengthening Technique. Developed by a fitness trainer, massage therapist and Rolfer, it is a method to massage, lubricate thru manipulation, and lengthen the layer of tissue that lies beneath our skin and surrounds muscles and organs. That layer that basically supports and holds us together - the fascia.
The workshop I attended dealt with MELT for the hands and feet -- which, it was explained, will help with many areas of the body. We were given 3 small balls of varying size and density. First, we did an assessment - some balance work, and then the MELT-ing began. We started with the larger, soft ball, rolling it under and pressing it into points on one foot (this process was repeated on the other foot and then on the hands). Note, this is done in a particular order, according to how our fascia flows. We moved to the tiny, very hard ball, and did some similar movements. Then the more dense larger ball came into action. We moved this differently - gliding and rinsing the soles of our feet in a specific order and direction. My experience? The first two balls were fine, interesting; the 3rd, a bit uncomfortable -- which is a sign of tightness, dehydration, etc. -- especially, the 'rinsing' (rolling the ball from the base of each toe to the heel with equal, firm pressure).
Ahhh, learning new stuff is fun. It's also a challenge to step out of our 'box', our comfort zone. Experience something new and keep an open mind.
Once we had completed both feet, we did the same balance work to re-assess (and, perhaps, see the results of our work). Interesting that the balance was better; I felt more grounded; and my feet certainly felt more open and spacious.
On to the hands. Similar work. Assess; use the balls; re-assess. Not quite as dramatic, but my hands did feel more spacious and stronger when finished.
This morning? Going to MELT (I did buy a set of the balls). Then practice. I'll teach my Therapeutic class at 2pm, followed by Prenatal. Excited that in just 2 weeks, I'll participate in another workshop -- this one, with Jessica Jennings on teaching prenatal yoga. My prenatal teaching will benefit from this refresher.
Hope you have a great Tuesday!
So, what is MELT? Myofascial Energetic Lengthening Technique. Developed by a fitness trainer, massage therapist and Rolfer, it is a method to massage, lubricate thru manipulation, and lengthen the layer of tissue that lies beneath our skin and surrounds muscles and organs. That layer that basically supports and holds us together - the fascia.
The workshop I attended dealt with MELT for the hands and feet -- which, it was explained, will help with many areas of the body. We were given 3 small balls of varying size and density. First, we did an assessment - some balance work, and then the MELT-ing began. We started with the larger, soft ball, rolling it under and pressing it into points on one foot (this process was repeated on the other foot and then on the hands). Note, this is done in a particular order, according to how our fascia flows. We moved to the tiny, very hard ball, and did some similar movements. Then the more dense larger ball came into action. We moved this differently - gliding and rinsing the soles of our feet in a specific order and direction. My experience? The first two balls were fine, interesting; the 3rd, a bit uncomfortable -- which is a sign of tightness, dehydration, etc. -- especially, the 'rinsing' (rolling the ball from the base of each toe to the heel with equal, firm pressure).
Ahhh, learning new stuff is fun. It's also a challenge to step out of our 'box', our comfort zone. Experience something new and keep an open mind.
Once we had completed both feet, we did the same balance work to re-assess (and, perhaps, see the results of our work). Interesting that the balance was better; I felt more grounded; and my feet certainly felt more open and spacious.
On to the hands. Similar work. Assess; use the balls; re-assess. Not quite as dramatic, but my hands did feel more spacious and stronger when finished.
This morning? Going to MELT (I did buy a set of the balls). Then practice. I'll teach my Therapeutic class at 2pm, followed by Prenatal. Excited that in just 2 weeks, I'll participate in another workshop -- this one, with Jessica Jennings on teaching prenatal yoga. My prenatal teaching will benefit from this refresher.
Hope you have a great Tuesday!
AND, THIS WEEK?
I am sorry to say that I missed this Wednesday's Wisdom Warrior gathering. Unavoidable absence -- needed to take a few days and visit my family in Spokane.
As I flew in yesterday (Thursday), I pondered what I would teach my afternoon class (to be honest, I have used a lot of the material from the Wednesday practice as a template for this Thursday gathering). Missing the practice means I have no fresh material. Nevertheless, I was excited for the class to happen, to see the 'regulars' (it's taken a while, but I do have 'regulars' now), to experience students' thirst for more yoga knowledge.
So, arrived in Orange County at noon, smooth drive home, quick lunch and a short rest, then it was off to Temecula to teach. What to teach, was my lingering concern.
Two newer students in the room, plus 3 'regulars'. Not bad for 4pm on a Thursday. Now, what do I teach? I decided on some twisted poses - things like revolved half moon and triangle. After sitting on a plane for 3 hours, and spending a couple hours sitting and waiting or driving, I knew I would love to do some twists -- so that was the plan. Using the wall in these poses would refine the 'regulars' and offer accessibility to the newer students -- perfect!
First, tho, after warming up we had to do a few handstands. I marvel at the progress and refinement that has happened in the 'regulars'. At this studio, each of them attends many different classes with different instructors. Love that. And, it all congeals into a refining (loving that word today). Good stuff.
Today? Teaching again -- Gentle Yoga at 11:30am, also in Temecula.
Hope you have a great Friday!
As I flew in yesterday (Thursday), I pondered what I would teach my afternoon class (to be honest, I have used a lot of the material from the Wednesday practice as a template for this Thursday gathering). Missing the practice means I have no fresh material. Nevertheless, I was excited for the class to happen, to see the 'regulars' (it's taken a while, but I do have 'regulars' now), to experience students' thirst for more yoga knowledge.
So, arrived in Orange County at noon, smooth drive home, quick lunch and a short rest, then it was off to Temecula to teach. What to teach, was my lingering concern.
Two newer students in the room, plus 3 'regulars'. Not bad for 4pm on a Thursday. Now, what do I teach? I decided on some twisted poses - things like revolved half moon and triangle. After sitting on a plane for 3 hours, and spending a couple hours sitting and waiting or driving, I knew I would love to do some twists -- so that was the plan. Using the wall in these poses would refine the 'regulars' and offer accessibility to the newer students -- perfect!
First, tho, after warming up we had to do a few handstands. I marvel at the progress and refinement that has happened in the 'regulars'. At this studio, each of them attends many different classes with different instructors. Love that. And, it all congeals into a refining (loving that word today). Good stuff.
Today? Teaching again -- Gentle Yoga at 11:30am, also in Temecula.
Hope you have a great Friday!
NO PRESSURE; BUT, WRITE !
My blog postings recently have focused most on the recently-begun Wisdom Warriors, a once-weekly, two-hour practice group of 50+ year old women and men. As most of you know, the group is coordinated by Desiree Rumbaugh and Geri Portnoy, with one or two others filling in if they are out of town. Why has my focus been so one-pointed? Well, with Anusara in turmoil right now (there may be light at the end of the tunnel, so I am still waiting), the Warriors is one very light moment of my week and has re-invigorated my practice and my teaching. That's worth writing about.
So, to proceed . . .
Six weeks in, and we've practiced with Desiree 4 times; Geri once; and - yesterday - Garry Alessio filled in for the traveling Warrior leaders. Talk about putting one's feet to the fire! I mentioned pressure in my title, since Desiree has come to enjoy these blog posts; but Garry had to practice with and guide 15 Warrior women through 2 hours of yoga! I guess he wins the 'pressure war'.
Why? Well, everyone attending is a steady yoga practitioner. We all come from different teaching backgrounds and different teachers. Some of us travel from other locales and studios to do this practice. A practice is an opportunity to do our yoga, ask questions, offer some input, ask for heat/air adjustments, perhaps do our own advanced version of the pose being suggested. It is a different 'animal' that the usual yoga class, where everyone is quiet and trying to do exactly what the instructor offers. (One side effect: we are becoming our own community within a community!)
I hope you get the picture by now -- one guy, standing in front of fifteen 50+ year-old accomplished yogis, offering a practice sequence with immediate feedback (and sound effects) from participants. Don't get me wrong, we weren't rowdy, just vocal.
But, best of all and as we've done each week, we had fun. Garry took us through a well-rounded practice, some moves that I'd not done before, and sequences that were challenging. And, some of us had a few good laughs at ourselves (me, in particular, when I found myself lying in a heap as I tried to exit one of those unfamiliar moves).
In each of these practices (as in classes), I like to reflect on the things I learned. Here are a couple:
So, to proceed . . .
Six weeks in, and we've practiced with Desiree 4 times; Geri once; and - yesterday - Garry Alessio filled in for the traveling Warrior leaders. Talk about putting one's feet to the fire! I mentioned pressure in my title, since Desiree has come to enjoy these blog posts; but Garry had to practice with and guide 15 Warrior women through 2 hours of yoga! I guess he wins the 'pressure war'.
Why? Well, everyone attending is a steady yoga practitioner. We all come from different teaching backgrounds and different teachers. Some of us travel from other locales and studios to do this practice. A practice is an opportunity to do our yoga, ask questions, offer some input, ask for heat/air adjustments, perhaps do our own advanced version of the pose being suggested. It is a different 'animal' that the usual yoga class, where everyone is quiet and trying to do exactly what the instructor offers. (One side effect: we are becoming our own community within a community!)
I hope you get the picture by now -- one guy, standing in front of fifteen 50+ year-old accomplished yogis, offering a practice sequence with immediate feedback (and sound effects) from participants. Don't get me wrong, we weren't rowdy, just vocal.
But, best of all and as we've done each week, we had fun. Garry took us through a well-rounded practice, some moves that I'd not done before, and sequences that were challenging. And, some of us had a few good laughs at ourselves (me, in particular, when I found myself lying in a heap as I tried to exit one of those unfamiliar moves).
In each of these practices (as in classes), I like to reflect on the things I learned. Here are a couple:
- Parighasana (gate pose) -- place a block under the hip of the extended leg, place the other leg in virasana, lengthen torso and reach for extended foot with corresponding arm. Now take other arm over your head towards foot. What's different? The elevation provided by the block makes the journey to the foot much more enjoyable.
- Ustrasana (camel pose) -- as we prepared, Garry suggested we press our hands into the back of our thighs (and press back with the thighs). This was interesting, something I'd not done before. What happened? I was able to lift heart, lean back more confidently, and - when reaching for the ankles - it was both hands reaching the heels at the same time. For me, that doesn't happen always. We tried it twice - both times, same result.
Thank you, Garry, for being our guide. As I said, it was fun, I learned some new stuff, I refined some other stuff, I enjoyed being with everyone.
Today? Well, my Thursday class will benefit from yesterday's exploration of new 'stuff'.
I hope you all have a great Thursday, as well!
WW #5
Wow! yesterday (Wednesday) was the fifth installment of Wisdom Warriors, the practice I've written about each week. It's become a habit for me to write about it in this blog, so here goes:
Major change this week: Geri leads the practice, as Desiree is traveling. What to expect? Not sure. I have attended Geri's classes (even a practice), but not as regularly as I'd like. I do know this: It will be challenging with a different flavor.
Different flavors are good. I wish many yoga students would try different flavors. Why? So much to learn, an opportunity to create a flexibility of the mind. What do I mean by that? Well, if you are a yoga teacher and you fill in for someone's regular class, you may have seen students move to the next pose in a series - as if on automatic pilot. I know that if I study and practice with just one or two instructors, I fall into their rhythm. I know what to expect, I move without really thinking or listening. Change it up a bit, and I have to listen more carefully; I also have to wait to see what the new or different instructor will ask me to do. No anticipating the movement. I also am sure to pick up a few tidbits of information if I listen closely.
That was the case yesterday. Geri is a different teacher. I'd sum it up as she injects a calm, efficient, knowing energy into a room. One that says, 'you can do it, let's try' in a voice that is all of the above (no hype, no perky, no super enthusiastic); then, if you still refuse, she immediately moves into reassuring mode, even offering a compliment on the way you did a previous move. Nice.
I'm thinking here of the instructor that says 'you can do it! just step back, jump, and fly!' When you read the previous sentence, make sure you add a lot of emphasis to the bolded words, raise your voice a few decibels, and get VERY enthusiastic. To a student like me, I respond 'right'. I know myself. I know I won't fly (yet). I want it broken down, explained, offered to me so that I can visualize where I am 'flying' to and how I am going to get my body there, as well as my mind.
As I've been writing, I've been trying to come up with a good simple descriptive for the two teachers (Geri and Desiree). Contrary compliments is one that comes to mind. They are not alike. And neither is trying to teach like the other. They have their own voice. Each has a unique wisdom. It is a great balance.
We, the Wisdom Warriors, are very lucky students!
Oh, and one more note about WW: Geri began our class with a quote from one of FDR's speeches (and, which has been modified by Brene Brown to a book title): 'the only thing we have to fear is fear itself' and applied it to our efforts as 50+ year olds doing things many would never dream of. I immediately related to her comments that, at this age, we move into a knowing and a confidence that allows us to do the challenging without fear of failure. So, I am listening, I am inspired; I am also listening to a voice in my head reciting the verse of a song "If I Were Brave", by the 4 Bitchin' Babes. If you get a chance check it out. You'll understand.
Today? Watch out 4pm class; I come prepared with a few new tricks, thanks to Geri.
PRACTICING AND TEACHING
Since last week's post, I've been practicing a 'few' jumps (perhaps not as many as Des would like). Just hard to get out of the habit of stepping and harder to jump, fall short, and feel good about it. And, much of my practice is done for my own 'feeling good'.
I did teach several of the things we practiced at last Thursday's class. Fortunately (or unfortunately), there were just two in class -- but two dedicated and striving students. Good subjects for the topics I hoped to teach. I included the chair stuff, urdhva dhanurasana, pincha mayurasana, along with some general alignment enhancements (don't lock knees, weight all 4 corners of feet, like that). Smiling students left the room. I overhead them walking down the hall, "boy, that was like a private lesson". I think it was a private; semi-private, at least! I loved it.
In fact, I saw one in the Sunday class I taught. The report from this very accomplished student: Pincha is her 'nemesis' pose; it has always eluded her. Well, after working on it Thursday, she was asked to do it again in a class Saturday. Kicked up the first time. She gave me credit and I don't want to take credit for that (well, yes, I do); I'm sure the practice - doing it again and again - had a lot to do with her success. Now, that's good stuff.
Speaking of the Sunday class, I filled in for a teacher who went to visit her Mother. Weekends are fun, because we can count having more students than our weekday classes draw (especially when your weekday classes begin at 2pm, 3pm, 4pm, 4:30pm -- not exactly the crowd-pleasing times). Mother's Day was questionable, tho. I wished I had realized the day/holiday connection 2 weeks before and I might have asked to offer a 'special'. No matter, I still had 7 students.
After the class, the usual thank you's, the comment from my Thursday student (see para 3), and a comment from a student who thanked me for the 'wealth of anatomical information'. I must admit that I do not ascribe to the concept of 'don't answer the question that hasn't been asked'. Oh, I don't let everything out, but I probably am more verbose that many instructors especially when the workings of the body are involved. Why tell people to stand with feet parallel without telling them why? Why tell people not to let their knee travel in front of their ankle without telling them why? These two examples of really significant postural alignment will help to save their knees and hips. Why skip telling students this stuff?
Maybe it's because some students just want to come to class and 'lose themselves' in the music and movement. That's fine; but, if they come to my classes -- they'll get movement with a purpose and no music. Tough love.
Teaching 2 classes today. Hope you have a great Tuesday!
I did teach several of the things we practiced at last Thursday's class. Fortunately (or unfortunately), there were just two in class -- but two dedicated and striving students. Good subjects for the topics I hoped to teach. I included the chair stuff, urdhva dhanurasana, pincha mayurasana, along with some general alignment enhancements (don't lock knees, weight all 4 corners of feet, like that). Smiling students left the room. I overhead them walking down the hall, "boy, that was like a private lesson". I think it was a private; semi-private, at least! I loved it.
In fact, I saw one in the Sunday class I taught. The report from this very accomplished student: Pincha is her 'nemesis' pose; it has always eluded her. Well, after working on it Thursday, she was asked to do it again in a class Saturday. Kicked up the first time. She gave me credit and I don't want to take credit for that (well, yes, I do); I'm sure the practice - doing it again and again - had a lot to do with her success. Now, that's good stuff.
Speaking of the Sunday class, I filled in for a teacher who went to visit her Mother. Weekends are fun, because we can count having more students than our weekday classes draw (especially when your weekday classes begin at 2pm, 3pm, 4pm, 4:30pm -- not exactly the crowd-pleasing times). Mother's Day was questionable, tho. I wished I had realized the day/holiday connection 2 weeks before and I might have asked to offer a 'special'. No matter, I still had 7 students.
After the class, the usual thank you's, the comment from my Thursday student (see para 3), and a comment from a student who thanked me for the 'wealth of anatomical information'. I must admit that I do not ascribe to the concept of 'don't answer the question that hasn't been asked'. Oh, I don't let everything out, but I probably am more verbose that many instructors especially when the workings of the body are involved. Why tell people to stand with feet parallel without telling them why? Why tell people not to let their knee travel in front of their ankle without telling them why? These two examples of really significant postural alignment will help to save their knees and hips. Why skip telling students this stuff?
Maybe it's because some students just want to come to class and 'lose themselves' in the music and movement. That's fine; but, if they come to my classes -- they'll get movement with a purpose and no music. Tough love.
Teaching 2 classes today. Hope you have a great Tuesday!
"JUMP BACK" she instructed . . .
"Jump back" she instructed and my mind went in to frantic mode -- jumping, my nemesis. In fact, anything that has me lifting feet from floor, propelling them in a direction away from my hands, is not (and never has been) in my repertoire. Most times I will ignore these instructions to jump - stepping instead. Something about this instruction seemed to say 'do it' and, in a room of thirty 50+ year olds (all giving it the good old college try; many succeeding beautifully), what can one do but try to comply.
So . . .
Uttanasana, hands on floor, hamstrings are tight - so step back a few inches from hands, energize arms-shoulders-shoulder blades, melt heart, bring weight forward over hands, take a breath, now JUMP BACK, land in chaturanga dandasana (imagine a push-up just before you reach the ground and hit your 'pause' button). Good instructions, but for someone like me (who has never been a good or willing jumper), challenging. I asked the questions "how about those of us who have never jumped, avoided it - to be perfectly honest?". Well, a demo.
A demo by my good friend Debra (last name left out to protect the innocent). Same instructions, beautiful jump-back, but - because she allowed herself to go to the floor rather than hit her 'pause' button, she got up and did it again. Not just twice, three times -- until there was a definite 'pause' before going to the floor. Beautiful. Impressive. Envy-producing. (BTW, the repeated attempts were Debra's idea, not forced on her by anyone -- just being clear here -- what a trooper!)
Back to my mat for a few more tries. Jump back to chaturanga dandasana (the paused push-up), go to down dog, NOW JUMP FORWARD. I'm about filled to the brim with 'jumping', when lo-and-behold, my jump forward was at least 4 inches closer to my hands than EVER. Progress.
The previous 4 paragraphs have been dedicated to our 'Wisdom Warriors' practice yesterday (Wednesday). Like each of the last 3 weeks, it was fun. It was comfortable. It felt safe to do (or not do) the poses (most were offered with options - EXCEPT that 'jumping' part). We worked on arm strength and shoulder opening in preparation for backbending. Geri brought out the chairs (oh no, the chairs!). I never knew you could do so much with chairs. Just a simple folding chair; one like you can buy at any retail store. So much good stuff.
So much good stuff, that I think I just came up with my plan for today's Basics class. Fun.
Wednesdays are fast becoming one of the best days of my week. Thank you, thank you, thank you to Desiree, Geri, and all my new and inspiring friends!
Now, on to Thursday.
So . . .
Uttanasana, hands on floor, hamstrings are tight - so step back a few inches from hands, energize arms-shoulders-shoulder blades, melt heart, bring weight forward over hands, take a breath, now JUMP BACK, land in chaturanga dandasana (imagine a push-up just before you reach the ground and hit your 'pause' button). Good instructions, but for someone like me (who has never been a good or willing jumper), challenging. I asked the questions "how about those of us who have never jumped, avoided it - to be perfectly honest?". Well, a demo.
A demo by my good friend Debra (last name left out to protect the innocent). Same instructions, beautiful jump-back, but - because she allowed herself to go to the floor rather than hit her 'pause' button, she got up and did it again. Not just twice, three times -- until there was a definite 'pause' before going to the floor. Beautiful. Impressive. Envy-producing. (BTW, the repeated attempts were Debra's idea, not forced on her by anyone -- just being clear here -- what a trooper!)
Back to my mat for a few more tries. Jump back to chaturanga dandasana (the paused push-up), go to down dog, NOW JUMP FORWARD. I'm about filled to the brim with 'jumping', when lo-and-behold, my jump forward was at least 4 inches closer to my hands than EVER. Progress.
The previous 4 paragraphs have been dedicated to our 'Wisdom Warriors' practice yesterday (Wednesday). Like each of the last 3 weeks, it was fun. It was comfortable. It felt safe to do (or not do) the poses (most were offered with options - EXCEPT that 'jumping' part). We worked on arm strength and shoulder opening in preparation for backbending. Geri brought out the chairs (oh no, the chairs!). I never knew you could do so much with chairs. Just a simple folding chair; one like you can buy at any retail store. So much good stuff.
So much good stuff, that I think I just came up with my plan for today's Basics class. Fun.
Wednesdays are fast becoming one of the best days of my week. Thank you, thank you, thank you to Desiree, Geri, and all my new and inspiring friends!
Now, on to Thursday.
AT THE LIBRARY . . .
As many of you know, each Monday from 3-4pm, I teach a class at the Fallbrook Library. This is my gift to my new community. I volunteer my time, students come into class at no charge.
To say this is a 'traditional' yoga class would be stretching it a bit. Many have never done yoga, or have done a different style, or perhaps are returning to the practice. Ages range from 12 to 60+. Average attendance lately is 20. I think I mentioned in an earlier post that about 15 of those are 'regulars', the rest are newcomers (who may become regulars).
Yesterday's class was no different than what I've described. We worked on the 'little' things -- feet parallel, thighs back, arms reaching for the fullest stretch possible. Then, a couple challenges -- first vasisthasana (side plank). Out of the room, the comment heard was "I'm too heavy for this". What did I do? A short demo and talk about involving the rest of the body in the pose, not just the poor wrist and arm holding it up. "Keep hips high"; "pull yourself up out of the lower arm, using the reach of the upper arm", "use your leg strength". Second time around was better, I think (tho the man who made the comment was not convinced; his pose looked better, tho).
Then malasana (squat), some with heels on a blanket. Here's a good example of the freedom I'm feeling while teaching -- rather than look out at a room of people half-squatting, and leave it at that - moving on to another, more accessible, pose. We all stood up, and I asked them -- "I notice many of you bent your knees, made it halfway down, then stopped. Why?" One person expressed concern about the knees, the rest had simply never done it before (or, it's been a long time). Mystery resolved, we made some adjustments and tried it again with more success. (I must tell you, it is so much more freeing to teach like this -- more like a conversation, than a monologue.)
Now, as long as I've got everyone in malasana, why not go for bakasana? (This is something I have tried very little of with this group -- arm balances!) Several in the room had brief moments of elevation, many at least tried, some just stood and watched. I didn't push anyone to try the pose who wasn't comfortable doing it. I even offered them the option of standing on a block, then moving into the pose -- which, for some makes it more accessible. Fortunately, no one did any massive face plants, and we moved on.
A one-hour class restricts how far we can go; how much we can do. There just isn't time to do the full spectrum. We finished out class with some back lying poses and savasana. My closing line -- "When I step out of my comfort zone, I remember my power; in the past, I used to short-change myself in this regard, saying 'I can't do this or that', and not giving it a try. Everyone tried and even if we didn't succeed today, we tried. That bodes well for the next time." Audible groan from the room (see, I said it wasn't your usual class).
Hope you have a great Tuesday.
To say this is a 'traditional' yoga class would be stretching it a bit. Many have never done yoga, or have done a different style, or perhaps are returning to the practice. Ages range from 12 to 60+. Average attendance lately is 20. I think I mentioned in an earlier post that about 15 of those are 'regulars', the rest are newcomers (who may become regulars).
Yesterday's class was no different than what I've described. We worked on the 'little' things -- feet parallel, thighs back, arms reaching for the fullest stretch possible. Then, a couple challenges -- first vasisthasana (side plank). Out of the room, the comment heard was "I'm too heavy for this". What did I do? A short demo and talk about involving the rest of the body in the pose, not just the poor wrist and arm holding it up. "Keep hips high"; "pull yourself up out of the lower arm, using the reach of the upper arm", "use your leg strength". Second time around was better, I think (tho the man who made the comment was not convinced; his pose looked better, tho).
Then malasana (squat), some with heels on a blanket. Here's a good example of the freedom I'm feeling while teaching -- rather than look out at a room of people half-squatting, and leave it at that - moving on to another, more accessible, pose. We all stood up, and I asked them -- "I notice many of you bent your knees, made it halfway down, then stopped. Why?" One person expressed concern about the knees, the rest had simply never done it before (or, it's been a long time). Mystery resolved, we made some adjustments and tried it again with more success. (I must tell you, it is so much more freeing to teach like this -- more like a conversation, than a monologue.)
Now, as long as I've got everyone in malasana, why not go for bakasana? (This is something I have tried very little of with this group -- arm balances!) Several in the room had brief moments of elevation, many at least tried, some just stood and watched. I didn't push anyone to try the pose who wasn't comfortable doing it. I even offered them the option of standing on a block, then moving into the pose -- which, for some makes it more accessible. Fortunately, no one did any massive face plants, and we moved on.
A one-hour class restricts how far we can go; how much we can do. There just isn't time to do the full spectrum. We finished out class with some back lying poses and savasana. My closing line -- "When I step out of my comfort zone, I remember my power; in the past, I used to short-change myself in this regard, saying 'I can't do this or that', and not giving it a try. Everyone tried and even if we didn't succeed today, we tried. That bodes well for the next time." Audible groan from the room (see, I said it wasn't your usual class).
Hope you have a great Tuesday.
THE SIDE EFFECTS . . .
There are apparent side effects to practicing weekly with Desiree Rumbaugh. These are coming out as I teach.
The first, very outstanding one is the re-invigorated access to teachings that I had forgotten. You know -- like those poses you forget about, or the poses you don't enjoy doing and, therefore, teach less often. I'm loving being reminded each week that there is much more, so much that it is easy to get stuck teaching the familiar and comfortable. I am coming out of that rut (just ask the students). Knowledge.
My strength is coming back. Oh, I can't do all the poses yet, but I am regaining much of the strength that I had lost over the past year. This has been partly my lack of initiative; but, also, due to frequent bouts with colds, flu, etc. The practice -- the act of committing to this weekly get-together -- is increasing my strength, slowly but surely. And, when I am on my mat alone, I am more likely to do the more challenging stuff. Accountability.
There's another "Leslie" appearing in the 'Seat of the Teacher'. Huh? Yesterday, as I taught, I heard myself using phrases, exclamations, encouragements previously not part of my vocabulary. I might sum it up as more lively, more involved, more fun(?). I hope so. Enjoyment.
I'm sure there are more 'side effects' yet to be revealed, but this last one -- enjoyment -- is a real boon to my teaching. I am able to relax, I notice I'm more engaged with the students, I am having fun.
Just an update. Hope you have a great Friday!
WISDOM WARRIORS, Practice #3
"Head behind leg, check! Shoulder in sole of foot, check! Handstand to Warrior III & back to handstand, check! (Well, not really - but, I gave them all the good old college try.) Wisdom Warriors Rock!"
I posted the above on Facebook last night when I returned home from the third Wisdom Warriors practice. We did all of the above things (plus more); many in the room were much more accomplished than me, but - as I said - I did try.
Much of the practice reminded me of the days in Salt Lake, going to class or practice with Adam Ballenger (who, by the way, traveled the Anusara ladder via Desiree). Perhaps that's why I kept thinking of him -- my teaching is often reflective of those I have studied with. I even heard myself let out a groan (or a hoot) that very much reminded me of the sound effects Adam would employ in classes. Ahhh, reflection.
Surprise, I looked down at my mat at one point, and saw sweat drops littering it! Haven't seen that kind of work for a while (or, perhaps it was the heat/humidity in the room). No matter, I loved it.
Best of all, I saw many of the same faces and a few new ones. A friend from Temecula made the journey. And, Orange County was represented, as well (for those of you unfamiliar with our geography, these are significant drives -- over an hour, I'm thinking). And, if you are curious, the traffic 'gods' were with me again. I even left 10 minutes early, thinking that 3 weeks in a row cannot happen; better be prepared for a little 'stoppage' on the freeway. But, it didn't happen; smooth sailing, all the way.
I read a Facebook post early this morning -- something like "it's not about the poses". I agree, it's not. And, many times I can't do the poses. That doesn't mean I don't try. I do. My theory - if I begin to take the body towards the shape, eventually I'll get there. I've seen it happen in myself -- try, try, try, 'bang' - I'm in the pose. So, I keep trying. And, I keep laughing; it makes everything more palatable.
I'm teaching Basics today in Temecula (Living Yoga), at 4pm. I have a wealth of new material (taken from Wisdom Warriors); so, watch out!
I LOVE WEDNESDAYS AND ALL MY NEW WARRIOR FRIENDS, and I hope you have a great Thursday,
I posted the above on Facebook last night when I returned home from the third Wisdom Warriors practice. We did all of the above things (plus more); many in the room were much more accomplished than me, but - as I said - I did try.
Much of the practice reminded me of the days in Salt Lake, going to class or practice with Adam Ballenger (who, by the way, traveled the Anusara ladder via Desiree). Perhaps that's why I kept thinking of him -- my teaching is often reflective of those I have studied with. I even heard myself let out a groan (or a hoot) that very much reminded me of the sound effects Adam would employ in classes. Ahhh, reflection.
Surprise, I looked down at my mat at one point, and saw sweat drops littering it! Haven't seen that kind of work for a while (or, perhaps it was the heat/humidity in the room). No matter, I loved it.
Best of all, I saw many of the same faces and a few new ones. A friend from Temecula made the journey. And, Orange County was represented, as well (for those of you unfamiliar with our geography, these are significant drives -- over an hour, I'm thinking). And, if you are curious, the traffic 'gods' were with me again. I even left 10 minutes early, thinking that 3 weeks in a row cannot happen; better be prepared for a little 'stoppage' on the freeway. But, it didn't happen; smooth sailing, all the way.
I read a Facebook post early this morning -- something like "it's not about the poses". I agree, it's not. And, many times I can't do the poses. That doesn't mean I don't try. I do. My theory - if I begin to take the body towards the shape, eventually I'll get there. I've seen it happen in myself -- try, try, try, 'bang' - I'm in the pose. So, I keep trying. And, I keep laughing; it makes everything more palatable.
I'm teaching Basics today in Temecula (Living Yoga), at 4pm. I have a wealth of new material (taken from Wisdom Warriors); so, watch out!
I LOVE WEDNESDAYS AND ALL MY NEW WARRIOR FRIENDS, and I hope you have a great Thursday,
THEIR 'FIRSTS' ARE MANY TIMES MY 'FIRSTS'
One of those curiosity-invoking titles; causing you to read more, or not. I'll explain - -
Yesterday, my Therapeutic/Gentle class turned into a private for one student. (I do intend for the class to remain small, just not this small every time.) No matter, I and the student involved were happy to work together for 75 minutes on just the stuff she wanted/needed.
I'm not sure why, but we warmed up a bit, then stayed on the floor to work the quads -- you know, on the belly, bend one knee, reach back with corresponding hand and hold the foot. Then, gently draw that foot closer to the backside.
A bit of history -- this student has practiced yoga over the years. And, recently found herself in crowded gym yoga classes with little personal attention and lots of people. Nothing against gym classes, but they are not for everyone. She became increasingly discouraged ("I can't do that") until, finally, her husband wandered into one of my classes, then told her about me, and - now - for the rest of this post.
Her main goal is to reclaim her physical power and to get back into shape. Her flexibility is great, she just hasn't used it for a while.
So, working on the floor, she could bend the knee and not worry about stability issues. Reaching the foot became the issue (remember "I can't do that"). So, we lengthened thru the torso, we inner and outer spiraled, we reached once, twice, three times until finally the foot was captured. With knee safely in line with the straight leg, she began to experience what it feels like to, once again, hold her foot; first, one side, then the other. We even began to draw the foot closer to her hip, using the magic of inner and outer spiral, and a gentle pull on the foot. "I can't do that" changed to "amazing".
Now to standing. "I've never been able to do this and it is embarrassing in a yoga class" is what I think I heard her say. We used the wall for stability (one hand on the wall). I asked her to activate toes, draw one knee in towards her chest and grab the front of her shin. Side one, didn't quite make it. Side two, a couple tries and she had hold of her ankle. Once there, she took the ankle behind her, kept knees close together and, while pressing down thru the standing leg, she then stood tall and extended the bent knee towards the floor. Back to side one; still no luck there. But, I think that now she has the feeling in her body, it won't be long. A second time on side two - holding the ankle, going through all of what I wrote earlier.
"I have NEVER been able to do that. That was a first."
She worried I would think her silly for saying that. My response -- 'you are speaking to the person who revels in the feeling of knee on shoulder, inner thigh hugging in' -- also a 'first', but it never gets old, that feeling. And, the feeling of helping someone experience their 'first' -- priceless.
Off to practice with Desiree and Geri; 1-3pm, YogaDelMar. What a life, but someone has to do it!
Have a great Wednesday!
Yesterday, my Therapeutic/Gentle class turned into a private for one student. (I do intend for the class to remain small, just not this small every time.) No matter, I and the student involved were happy to work together for 75 minutes on just the stuff she wanted/needed.
I'm not sure why, but we warmed up a bit, then stayed on the floor to work the quads -- you know, on the belly, bend one knee, reach back with corresponding hand and hold the foot. Then, gently draw that foot closer to the backside.
A bit of history -- this student has practiced yoga over the years. And, recently found herself in crowded gym yoga classes with little personal attention and lots of people. Nothing against gym classes, but they are not for everyone. She became increasingly discouraged ("I can't do that") until, finally, her husband wandered into one of my classes, then told her about me, and - now - for the rest of this post.
Her main goal is to reclaim her physical power and to get back into shape. Her flexibility is great, she just hasn't used it for a while.
So, working on the floor, she could bend the knee and not worry about stability issues. Reaching the foot became the issue (remember "I can't do that"). So, we lengthened thru the torso, we inner and outer spiraled, we reached once, twice, three times until finally the foot was captured. With knee safely in line with the straight leg, she began to experience what it feels like to, once again, hold her foot; first, one side, then the other. We even began to draw the foot closer to her hip, using the magic of inner and outer spiral, and a gentle pull on the foot. "I can't do that" changed to "amazing".
Now to standing. "I've never been able to do this and it is embarrassing in a yoga class" is what I think I heard her say. We used the wall for stability (one hand on the wall). I asked her to activate toes, draw one knee in towards her chest and grab the front of her shin. Side one, didn't quite make it. Side two, a couple tries and she had hold of her ankle. Once there, she took the ankle behind her, kept knees close together and, while pressing down thru the standing leg, she then stood tall and extended the bent knee towards the floor. Back to side one; still no luck there. But, I think that now she has the feeling in her body, it won't be long. A second time on side two - holding the ankle, going through all of what I wrote earlier.
"I have NEVER been able to do that. That was a first."
She worried I would think her silly for saying that. My response -- 'you are speaking to the person who revels in the feeling of knee on shoulder, inner thigh hugging in' -- also a 'first', but it never gets old, that feeling. And, the feeling of helping someone experience their 'first' -- priceless.
Off to practice with Desiree and Geri; 1-3pm, YogaDelMar. What a life, but someone has to do it!
Have a great Wednesday!
A DAY IN THE LIFE OF LIBRARY YOGA!
I began the yoga class at the Library in September 2011. It is a volunteer effort; no charge to the students and no money to me, but that's what 'volunteer' is about -- an opportunity to give back, without expectation of monetary reward.
3-4 students attended the first class, people who regularly practice yoga. From there, it stayed about the same 3, 4, 5 people in the room every Monday for about 2 months. Eventually, the word got out, and the class began to grow. Yesterday (Monday), there were 21 people in class. That's been about the average for the past 4 months. Most are 'regulars', meaning they have made Monday yoga part of their current life's schedule.
I call it yogahour (stealing the name from another instructor), but a better name might be 'melting pot' yoga -- it brings together all manner of people -- new to yoga, experienced in yoga, different nationalities, different ages, some significant injuries/conditions, and varying ages (yesterday's class included two 12-year-olds, a few 65+ year olds and many inbetween).
About 10 minutes into class, a woman unknown to me entered the room. I was struck by how, when I offered her a pink mat, she refused it - opting for green, instead. Someday, I'll ask her why. As we continued, I could see she was experienced.
The class went on uneventfully. One of the pitfalls, I thought as I taught, was the risk of paying too much attention to the young people in the room. It's fun to teach focused 12-year-olds , but to pay too much attention to them is to rob the others of their experience. So, my challenge was to move in and through the room, verbally offering tips, hints and advice to everyone.
This is a one-hour class. We laugh a lot, and the structure is pretty much related to who or what condition arrives in class. That gives me the freedom to ask at the start of class if anyone has a request; something I don't normally do. Two requests -- down dog and revolved knee-down lunge twist; interesting. We began by warming up, threw in a couple down dogs, the revolved lunge, then moved to some standing poses, and finally Garudasana (eagle) pose. Lots of wall space in the room, so I had students stand with their backs about 12 inches from the wall. That way, when they sat down into the pose (eagle), they could press their seat into the wall and use it (or not) to help with their balance. It was fun and I loved the groans as I asked everyone to repeat the pose, both sides (it's always better the second time around, don't you know?).
Class ends. The late-arriving student introduced herself with the question "you teach Anusara yoga, don't you?" Why, yes, I replied. That led to a longer conversation. Seems she's been practicing yoga for much longer than me, even knew John Friend from the ashram days (pre-Anusara). And, she has continued to practice Anusara, studying with many people I know. For me, it was interesting to hear a non-teacher, long-time practicing Anusara student's perspective on the current Anusara situation. Basically, her stance: 'let it go; it happens everywhere; don't destroy the system'. I'm sure there's more, but for me that was good to hear. Supports my current thought process.
Today? Teaching at Living Yoga, 2pm (therapeutic/gentle), and again at 4:30pm (prenatal).
Hope you have a great Tuesday!
3-4 students attended the first class, people who regularly practice yoga. From there, it stayed about the same 3, 4, 5 people in the room every Monday for about 2 months. Eventually, the word got out, and the class began to grow. Yesterday (Monday), there were 21 people in class. That's been about the average for the past 4 months. Most are 'regulars', meaning they have made Monday yoga part of their current life's schedule.
I call it yogahour (stealing the name from another instructor), but a better name might be 'melting pot' yoga -- it brings together all manner of people -- new to yoga, experienced in yoga, different nationalities, different ages, some significant injuries/conditions, and varying ages (yesterday's class included two 12-year-olds, a few 65+ year olds and many inbetween).
About 10 minutes into class, a woman unknown to me entered the room. I was struck by how, when I offered her a pink mat, she refused it - opting for green, instead. Someday, I'll ask her why. As we continued, I could see she was experienced.
The class went on uneventfully. One of the pitfalls, I thought as I taught, was the risk of paying too much attention to the young people in the room. It's fun to teach focused 12-year-olds , but to pay too much attention to them is to rob the others of their experience. So, my challenge was to move in and through the room, verbally offering tips, hints and advice to everyone.
This is a one-hour class. We laugh a lot, and the structure is pretty much related to who or what condition arrives in class. That gives me the freedom to ask at the start of class if anyone has a request; something I don't normally do. Two requests -- down dog and revolved knee-down lunge twist; interesting. We began by warming up, threw in a couple down dogs, the revolved lunge, then moved to some standing poses, and finally Garudasana (eagle) pose. Lots of wall space in the room, so I had students stand with their backs about 12 inches from the wall. That way, when they sat down into the pose (eagle), they could press their seat into the wall and use it (or not) to help with their balance. It was fun and I loved the groans as I asked everyone to repeat the pose, both sides (it's always better the second time around, don't you know?).
Class ends. The late-arriving student introduced herself with the question "you teach Anusara yoga, don't you?" Why, yes, I replied. That led to a longer conversation. Seems she's been practicing yoga for much longer than me, even knew John Friend from the ashram days (pre-Anusara). And, she has continued to practice Anusara, studying with many people I know. For me, it was interesting to hear a non-teacher, long-time practicing Anusara student's perspective on the current Anusara situation. Basically, her stance: 'let it go; it happens everywhere; don't destroy the system'. I'm sure there's more, but for me that was good to hear. Supports my current thought process.
Today? Teaching at Living Yoga, 2pm (therapeutic/gentle), and again at 4:30pm (prenatal).
Hope you have a great Tuesday!
AGAIN? THIS COULD BE HABIT FORMING!
Yesterday, another drive in to Del Mar. Another drive accompanied by the 'traffic gods' -- 40 minutes door-to-door, Fallbrook to YogaDelMar, to practice for 2 hours with Desiree Rumbaugh and Geri Portnoy and forty 50+ year olds. A few new faces; many repeats from last week.
First, let me say thank you to Desiree and Geri for putting this together, this opportunity to practice EVERY week with a group of women and men similar in age to me. I am loving it. And, as Desiree asked when we began -- "Who couldn't wait for it to be Wednesday?" -- my arm was among the first to shoot into the air.
So, how'd I do? Fine. Enjoyed every minute of week 2 of "Wisdom Warriors". The goal is to move through a full spectrum of Level 1 (Anusara syllabus) poses -- standing, balance, inversions, seated, twists, etc., etc. And, that we did. What do I love most? I love the laughter, the feeling of camaraderie in the room and I love that I can stay 'in the room' -- not tired, tho there is room for much improvement in my inversions. (I am also woefully weak in my backbending skills; therefore it's important to confess that we skipped urdhva dhanurasana this week; as we did a lot of backbending in other ways earlier in the class.)
I bought a pass = commitment.
One of the side benefits of this weekly practice is a reminder of all the poses I forget are out there to teach and to be enjoyed. Not to mention the exercises that open me up and prepare me to do these poses. I hope to carry this forward to my classes.
Speaking of classes, today is Basics at 4pm at Living Yoga. A small but faithful group. Last week I took them into a few arm balances -- new territory for at least one. It was great to see each find something in the poses they had not experienced before -- especially if it was to get feet off the floor or simply into the beginning shape of the pose. Why? Because our bodies will remember and next time, it will be easier. Yes!
Raining here in sunny So. California; good for the avocado trees (and good for our water budget).
Hope you have a great Thursday!
First, let me say thank you to Desiree and Geri for putting this together, this opportunity to practice EVERY week with a group of women and men similar in age to me. I am loving it. And, as Desiree asked when we began -- "Who couldn't wait for it to be Wednesday?" -- my arm was among the first to shoot into the air.
So, how'd I do? Fine. Enjoyed every minute of week 2 of "Wisdom Warriors". The goal is to move through a full spectrum of Level 1 (Anusara syllabus) poses -- standing, balance, inversions, seated, twists, etc., etc. And, that we did. What do I love most? I love the laughter, the feeling of camaraderie in the room and I love that I can stay 'in the room' -- not tired, tho there is room for much improvement in my inversions. (I am also woefully weak in my backbending skills; therefore it's important to confess that we skipped urdhva dhanurasana this week; as we did a lot of backbending in other ways earlier in the class.)
I bought a pass = commitment.
One of the side benefits of this weekly practice is a reminder of all the poses I forget are out there to teach and to be enjoyed. Not to mention the exercises that open me up and prepare me to do these poses. I hope to carry this forward to my classes.
Speaking of classes, today is Basics at 4pm at Living Yoga. A small but faithful group. Last week I took them into a few arm balances -- new territory for at least one. It was great to see each find something in the poses they had not experienced before -- especially if it was to get feet off the floor or simply into the beginning shape of the pose. Why? Because our bodies will remember and next time, it will be easier. Yes!
Raining here in sunny So. California; good for the avocado trees (and good for our water budget).
Hope you have a great Thursday!
SUCH FUN!
Yesterday, I made the 40-minute drive in to Del Mar (this, my friends, is VERY good time; the traffic 'gods' were with me). It's probably 40+ miles of 2-lane highway (some of it under construction, yet) and freeway driving from my home to Del Mar. I love the studio, Yoga Del Mar, owned by Geri Portnoy, but it is a long drive and often fraught with traffic 'demons'; so, I don't make this drive often enough.
Why, then, yesterday? Because Desiree Rumbaugh and Geri Portnoy scheduled a 2-hour practice for those of us 50-years-of-age or older. They call the practice group "Wisdom Warriors", and the plan is for it to gather weekly at Yoga Del Mar on Wednesdays, 1-3 pm. It will be co-taught by Desiree and Geri - a good thing, since Desiree is often traveling.
I left my house at noon, arrived at the studio 40 minutes later -- amazing! (You have to live here to appreciate just how amazing.) When I walked in, there were perhaps 20 women and 2 men in the room. As the group gathered, mats shifted, until 40 (FORTY) 50+ year olds lined the walls ready to do yoga. Geri and Desiree took position between our two rows of 20, and this first week Desiree led the practice, with Geri assisting. We even enjoyed Andrew multi-tasking between practice, playing DJ, and assisting.
It's important for me to say that I was a bit nervous about this. It has been a while since I have pushed myself. It is so easy to walk out to our small studio, warm up, then do whatever I am planning for my Gentle or Basics classes. I rarely think about urdhva dhanurasana and kicking up to a handstand -- well, let's just say, even when alone for me this is an embarrassing attempt. My worry (nervousness) came from the fear that I have let myself travel the Gentle/Basic path for so long that I would not be able to keep up.
Wrong.
I did keep up. I felt good through the entire 2 hours; could have gone on longer. I still didn't kick up to handstand by myself, and I still didn't get my head off the floor in urdhva (a definite backslide), but everything else felt good, great even. Small things please me. For example, just getting my leg on top of my shoulder and being able to squeeze in to the midline -- WOW! Love that feeling.
We capped off the afternoon with a snack at a local market (Barney's). And, we agreed this weekly practice is a VERY good idea. Looking forward to next week.
Here's to doing yoga with friends. Hope you have a great Thursday,
Why, then, yesterday? Because Desiree Rumbaugh and Geri Portnoy scheduled a 2-hour practice for those of us 50-years-of-age or older. They call the practice group "Wisdom Warriors", and the plan is for it to gather weekly at Yoga Del Mar on Wednesdays, 1-3 pm. It will be co-taught by Desiree and Geri - a good thing, since Desiree is often traveling.
I left my house at noon, arrived at the studio 40 minutes later -- amazing! (You have to live here to appreciate just how amazing.) When I walked in, there were perhaps 20 women and 2 men in the room. As the group gathered, mats shifted, until 40 (FORTY) 50+ year olds lined the walls ready to do yoga. Geri and Desiree took position between our two rows of 20, and this first week Desiree led the practice, with Geri assisting. We even enjoyed Andrew multi-tasking between practice, playing DJ, and assisting.
It's important for me to say that I was a bit nervous about this. It has been a while since I have pushed myself. It is so easy to walk out to our small studio, warm up, then do whatever I am planning for my Gentle or Basics classes. I rarely think about urdhva dhanurasana and kicking up to a handstand -- well, let's just say, even when alone for me this is an embarrassing attempt. My worry (nervousness) came from the fear that I have let myself travel the Gentle/Basic path for so long that I would not be able to keep up.
Wrong.
I did keep up. I felt good through the entire 2 hours; could have gone on longer. I still didn't kick up to handstand by myself, and I still didn't get my head off the floor in urdhva (a definite backslide), but everything else felt good, great even. Small things please me. For example, just getting my leg on top of my shoulder and being able to squeeze in to the midline -- WOW! Love that feeling.
We capped off the afternoon with a snack at a local market (Barney's). And, we agreed this weekly practice is a VERY good idea. Looking forward to next week.
Here's to doing yoga with friends. Hope you have a great Thursday,
ON MUSIC IN MY YOGA CLASSES
I do not play music when teaching my yoga classes. Oh, confession -- there was a time when I put on a Deva Premal song during savasana; but, since moving to So. Calif., music has been non-existant in my classes.
This isn't because I don't like music; I do. It's because it's not part of my teaching 'vocabulary'.
Having attended classes where music is a big part, I know that I can get involved in the music; more involved in the music than I am in listening to what the instructor has to say. I find myself tapping to the tune, rather than focusing on my yoga. Perhaps that's the reason I've chosen to (consciously or unconsciously) leave it out of my 'vocabulary'.
I hadn't thought much about it, until after one of my classes last week. As we finished up, one of the students commented "I didn't even notice that you weren't playing any music, until class was over; and I didn't miss it."
It is challenging for me to plan a class, to keep everyone doing what they need to be doing to stay safe. Add to that, creating a playlist of music and, for me, that's overload -- more than I need or want to be doing as I plan a class.
That's just my 'thing'. I won't walk out of a class I'm attending with music, but you won't hear any in mine.
Today? Library class - curious to see how a recent publicity 'plug' will affect attendance.
Hope you have a great Monday!
This isn't because I don't like music; I do. It's because it's not part of my teaching 'vocabulary'.
Having attended classes where music is a big part, I know that I can get involved in the music; more involved in the music than I am in listening to what the instructor has to say. I find myself tapping to the tune, rather than focusing on my yoga. Perhaps that's the reason I've chosen to (consciously or unconsciously) leave it out of my 'vocabulary'.
I hadn't thought much about it, until after one of my classes last week. As we finished up, one of the students commented "I didn't even notice that you weren't playing any music, until class was over; and I didn't miss it."
It is challenging for me to plan a class, to keep everyone doing what they need to be doing to stay safe. Add to that, creating a playlist of music and, for me, that's overload -- more than I need or want to be doing as I plan a class.
That's just my 'thing'. I won't walk out of a class I'm attending with music, but you won't hear any in mine.
Today? Library class - curious to see how a recent publicity 'plug' will affect attendance.
Hope you have a great Monday!
FACIAL EXPRESSIONS - ALMOST PRICELESS
"ALMOST" -- because in many cases they aren't worth a darn! The problem with them is that I allow myself to look at the expression, read into it whatever insecurity I'm feeling, and live with that. That is, until the person whose face I'm looking at tells me what's going on.
What am I talking about? I teach 5 classes each week. In each of those classes, I can quickly point out the people who I wonder about. You know, the stoic ones, or the ones grimacing, or the ones who are not quick to laugh at my jokes. I immediately jump to "they're not happy with me" or "I'm not teaching them what they came to class for" -- always, without fail.
Last week, however, I got a wonderful surprise. Behind the features - whatever they might be - lies a wealth of information waiting to come out. Here's an example:
One student, very fit, but because of a traumatic injury attends Gentle Yoga; and, she was very quiet for the first few weeks. You got it -- I'm feeling insecure. Then, at the end of class last week, the comment: "you know, since I've been using my hands in the way you're teaching, my issue with carpal tunnel has decreased." Whoaaa! Be still my heart.
Then -- same student -- a week later: "the circumference of my injured leg is increasing due to the work in these yoga classes". Another 'whoaa' moment.
And, from another quiet student, the comment: "your pace is perfect, the sequence great; I work harder in your gentle class than in some basic classes".
All this to say that I must not look at students and read something into their facial expressions -- it just will not be accurate. I thought I had learned this a few years ago, when I asked a grimacing student if something was hurting. Her response "no, I'm just thinking".
Just like I will never know the full extent of a student's history, I cannot trust facial expressions. They will deceive me every time. Even the smiling, seemingly attentive student might be thinking "this class can't end soon enough!"
Hope you have a great Saturday!
What am I talking about? I teach 5 classes each week. In each of those classes, I can quickly point out the people who I wonder about. You know, the stoic ones, or the ones grimacing, or the ones who are not quick to laugh at my jokes. I immediately jump to "they're not happy with me" or "I'm not teaching them what they came to class for" -- always, without fail.
Last week, however, I got a wonderful surprise. Behind the features - whatever they might be - lies a wealth of information waiting to come out. Here's an example:
One student, very fit, but because of a traumatic injury attends Gentle Yoga; and, she was very quiet for the first few weeks. You got it -- I'm feeling insecure. Then, at the end of class last week, the comment: "you know, since I've been using my hands in the way you're teaching, my issue with carpal tunnel has decreased." Whoaaa! Be still my heart.
Then -- same student -- a week later: "the circumference of my injured leg is increasing due to the work in these yoga classes". Another 'whoaa' moment.
And, from another quiet student, the comment: "your pace is perfect, the sequence great; I work harder in your gentle class than in some basic classes".
All this to say that I must not look at students and read something into their facial expressions -- it just will not be accurate. I thought I had learned this a few years ago, when I asked a grimacing student if something was hurting. Her response "no, I'm just thinking".
Just like I will never know the full extent of a student's history, I cannot trust facial expressions. They will deceive me every time. Even the smiling, seemingly attentive student might be thinking "this class can't end soon enough!"
Hope you have a great Saturday!
SPIRIT AND BRAVERY
Each of us, as yoga teachers, has a memorable student; one who is struggling but still makes it to class, no matter what.
One of mine was Jean, a woman my age, who arrived in my Gentle Yoga class while I owned the studio in Salt Lake. She was fit and feisty, a retired French teacher, who had never done yoga but had recently noticed her balance lacking and wanted to 'fix' it. So we worked, and worked and worked. But, nothing worked.
For the many months after she arrived in my class, she went to physicians searching for a reason her balance was leaving her. Finally, almost one year into our relationship, an answer: PSP (progressive supranuclear palsy). A disease in the Parkinson's family, but with a more definitive end result -- most patients will pass within 5 years of diagnosis. The disease affects balance, ability to swallow, vision; a real nasty 'bugger'.
However, Jean came to class the week after learning of the diagnosis almost relieved -- as if to say, 'finally, I know what is going on with me'. We continued. She always had a spot reserved by the post, and she always arrived early to help me get props out and to chat. When I would ask her how she was, her usual answer was "practically perfect".
As the disease progressed, Jean stopped driving and friends or husband brought her to class; many days I or one of the other students drove her home. Students rallied to her support in class as well -- helping her up when she fell and offering her words of praise and encouragement. Her pat response upon falling -- "I'm okay".
When the disease reached a point at which she was falling quite often, I asked her if I could share her diagnosis with the rest of the class. Why? It only seemed fair to the others in class to understand why she was falling and what to do when it happened. She agreed, with one caveat -- 'don't tell them about the dying part'. So, that day, I told the class that Jean had finally found out that she had a condition that would rob her of her balance; if she fell, we would pick her up and continue.
So, we continued. Modifications in our poses happened. A cane became part of her accessories. A wild and colorful one, much like I imagined she had been before PSP.
Last year, in March, about 3+ years since I first met Jean, I moved away from Salt Lake. One of my going away gifts from her was a picture frame, with the words "Gentle, my ass" written on one side; "I'm okay" on the other. I placed it on our bookshelves, eye level, and have passed it (and looked at it) every day we have lived in this house.
Jean passed earlier this month. Interesting that she had been on my mind over the past 2 weeks, I'd even been talking about her in my 'new' Gentle Yoga classes here in California. Such a brave friend. I miss her.
I hope you all had a wonderful Easter weekend, and that you have a great day and week!
One of mine was Jean, a woman my age, who arrived in my Gentle Yoga class while I owned the studio in Salt Lake. She was fit and feisty, a retired French teacher, who had never done yoga but had recently noticed her balance lacking and wanted to 'fix' it. So we worked, and worked and worked. But, nothing worked.
For the many months after she arrived in my class, she went to physicians searching for a reason her balance was leaving her. Finally, almost one year into our relationship, an answer: PSP (progressive supranuclear palsy). A disease in the Parkinson's family, but with a more definitive end result -- most patients will pass within 5 years of diagnosis. The disease affects balance, ability to swallow, vision; a real nasty 'bugger'.
However, Jean came to class the week after learning of the diagnosis almost relieved -- as if to say, 'finally, I know what is going on with me'. We continued. She always had a spot reserved by the post, and she always arrived early to help me get props out and to chat. When I would ask her how she was, her usual answer was "practically perfect".
As the disease progressed, Jean stopped driving and friends or husband brought her to class; many days I or one of the other students drove her home. Students rallied to her support in class as well -- helping her up when she fell and offering her words of praise and encouragement. Her pat response upon falling -- "I'm okay".
When the disease reached a point at which she was falling quite often, I asked her if I could share her diagnosis with the rest of the class. Why? It only seemed fair to the others in class to understand why she was falling and what to do when it happened. She agreed, with one caveat -- 'don't tell them about the dying part'. So, that day, I told the class that Jean had finally found out that she had a condition that would rob her of her balance; if she fell, we would pick her up and continue.
So, we continued. Modifications in our poses happened. A cane became part of her accessories. A wild and colorful one, much like I imagined she had been before PSP.
Last year, in March, about 3+ years since I first met Jean, I moved away from Salt Lake. One of my going away gifts from her was a picture frame, with the words "Gentle, my ass" written on one side; "I'm okay" on the other. I placed it on our bookshelves, eye level, and have passed it (and looked at it) every day we have lived in this house.
Jean passed earlier this month. Interesting that she had been on my mind over the past 2 weeks, I'd even been talking about her in my 'new' Gentle Yoga classes here in California. Such a brave friend. I miss her.
I hope you all had a wonderful Easter weekend, and that you have a great day and week!
"What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness"